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Rudi Lion, MFT

Sexuality Counseling

Are you getting enough? The way you want and need it? Is your partner open to talking about their wishes and desires? What is standing between you and the most satisfying, passionate sex you have ever had? Shyness, unresolved hurt, undigested experiences from the past?

Bring it all in. Sex is not taboo in my office. I am here to hear it, hold it with you, and help you move toward what you actually want, in a space that is safe, honest, and free of judgment.

What is standing between you and the most satisfying, passionate sex you have ever had?

Our sexual intimacy is often the first place our deepest fears and oldest survival strategies show up. We withdraw to stay safe, or we perform to avoid the discomfort of true vulnerability. In our work together, we look honestly at these patterns and trace them back to their roots, examining how your upbringing and past experiences have shaped your relationship with your own body and desire.

By slowing down and creating a heart-centered space, we can address the hidden hurts that have quietly limited your capacity for real intimacy, and begin to move toward a sex life that feels alive, connected, and fully yours.

Begin with a free 15‑minute consultation

A short phone call is the simplest way to find out whether we are a good fit.

Sessions
$200 individual, $250 couples, per 60 minutes
Insurance
Out of network only. A limited sliding scale may be available.
Office
2020 Alameda Padre Serra, Suite 217, Santa Barbara